Facing the challenge and rising above it.

"Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it. The meaning of life is whatever you ascribe it to be. Being alive is the meaning."

"We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us."

Those two quotes from Joseph Campbell are worth remembering while those of us in the Real Estate industry struggle to find a silver lining in all of the turmoil we currently face. As we read the morning paper and find more harbingers of bad news in the business section, we have a challenge broader than the sub-prime mortgage "crisis". We are forced to ask ourselves, "Is this what I want to do for the rest of my career?"

I think the answer depends on our goals. If we are looking for a quick and easy path to fortune and prestige, we might want to update our Monster.com profiles. However, if we are motivated by the quest for a meaningful life...now is the time to rise up. We get the chance to re-examine and maybe even reinvent our career goals.

I remember the day I first sold a new home. It was a Camden. A three bedroom, two and one half bath home on a slab. I sold it to a single guy named Tom. It was 1988. Interest rates were just dipping into the 10% range. I was a cocky "salesman" looking to make my first new home sale. To be honest, Tom would have likely purchased that home even if Pee Wee Herman was his salesman. It was the right home at the right price at the right time. Initially I was radiant in my own self-projected glory. Three days on the job and I slammed a sale! I was certain that I was destined for greatness.

As my intoxication started to wear off, I began to see things a little differently. Slowly at first. The meaning started to sink in. I just helped a complete stranger find his home...not a cell phone, a new car, a new suit, or a new bag of golf clubs...his home. I realized that this new job somehow meant a little more than just selling "stuff". I was participating in another persons life. That was an awesome revelation. And I mean awesome as in full of awe.

Like the Wizard of Oz...I was helping to grant wishes that my buyers could very well realize without my help. I was merely there to help guide them through the process. I wan't selling anything. I was helping them to change more than their address. I was helping them to find their home. Thankfully, I had this revelation early.

Without that revelation, the recession of the early ninties would have likely forced me to go get a job selling "stuff" in some other industry. Without that revelation, working weekends would have likely become intolerable. Without that revelation, making follow up calls when I should be home eating dinner would probably have become too laborous to endure.

Understanding that this career was more than just the sales process has helped me through this challenging market. Don't get me wrong. Sales awards, bonuses, and nice paychecks all make the journey more enjoyable. Closing a sale still brings a thrill that has never grown old to this day. But the awesome feeling of seeing a family find their home thanks to your guidance is the real bonus in our career. The paycheck just makes the intangible benefit into a tangible bonus.

When I am asked my opinion on the future of our industry I find myself thinking back to Joseph Campbell's quote..."Life is without meaning. You bring the meaning to it." These challenges will subside and new ones will replace them. The ability to find meaning is purely personal. This market is testing my stamina but not my committment. As long as there are people like Tom looking to find their home...I want to be there to help them find what they seek.

If you enjoy what you do and you strive to do it better every day the reward will find you. It may not be what we have grown accustomed to but as Mr. Campbell said, "We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us."